Krish Patel- Week 16- The Midnight Cringe reel

The idea for this blog came to me when I was trying to sleep last night, and my brain decided to replay the most embarrassing moments of my life right when I was about to fall asleep. It left me wondering as to what causes this and why does it happen during times that we are trying to rest.


The first pattern that I noticed was this happened especially at night or whenever our minds decided to drift off into space. Neurologically, it is the amygdala’s fault which is the part of your brain that controls emotions like fear and shame. When we relax, we let our guards down, allowing for these emotional memories to come swirling back in to remind yourself that you have made embarrassing mistakes before (if only I could have this good of a memory when I am taking a test).


Wanna test my theory. Close your eyes right now and let your guard down. You’ll suddenly remember all the embarrassing moments in your life like when you said “You too” to a waiter that brought you your food or that time where you waved at someone who did not wave at you back. In fact, the true evil lies for when your brain decides to roll the moment back in slow motion in 4K quality so you can experience every sensation that you felt that day.


Here’s the thing though: Everyone has this Midnight Cringe Reel. So next time you encounter it and decide to involuntarily doom scroll on it, just relax and have a fun time. Thank your brain for the free comedy movies. If you can conquer that, then you can practically do anything you set your mind to.


Sleep tight. And may your reels be funny.

 How to Stop Reliving Embarrassing Memories

Source: https://www.thecut.com/article/how-to-stop-reliving-embarrassing-memories.html

Comments

  1. Elina FanMay 21, 2025 at 2:54 PM

    Hi Krish, I totally relate to the moments when I close my eyes in bed, and suddenly all I can think about is all the weird moments that have happened in my life. I’ve never exactly thought about it in a comedic way; instead I always shy away in embarrassment and weirdly roll around in bed until the memory finally leaves me as I drift into sleep. As someone who is not taking biology, I didn’t know that it was all the amygdala’s fault; I hope there’s some way to remove it without damaging my memory so that only beautiful, non-embarrassing memories can be recollected. While making my collage, I was truly able to recount all of the memories in my past, both the good and bad. I love the moments where I am able to remember those deep memories lodged in the folds of my brain that include people I never see anymore, yet I also enjoy the weird version of me when I was younger, because it always makes me laugh. I always wonder why I thought I didn’t have to write answers on my tests because the teachers already knew them. I like the topic of your blog and the cute image of a bear holding its head!

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  2. Nidhi MukherjeeMay 21, 2025 at 5:03 PM

    Hi Krish! I can definitely relate to having a stream of “Midnight Cringe Reel[s]” just before I slip into slumber. While reliving such memories may be helpful in avoiding similar mistakes in the future, I simply hate reminiscing about them just for the sake of doing so.

    I love how you provided both factual and simpler levels of understanding for your topic. I feel like doing so with an issue everyone faces is crucial for deeper understanding in the matter of your subject. Your humorous quips throughout the blog were a treat to read, making the overall experience a pleasant one. Overall, this was quite an enjoyable and informative read. Thanks for sharing!

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  3. Ritwik DeshpandeMay 21, 2025 at 9:56 PM

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  4. Ritwik DeshpandeMay 21, 2025 at 9:56 PM

    Hi Krish,

    I’ve definitely had experiences similar to those that you described where I get overwhelmed with embarrassing memories when my mind is free. This often happens to me when I’m idling around, like if I get distracted when reading a book or watching a movie, or if I’m maybe at the cafe waiting for my order. In these kinds of situations, I’m not really using my brain much, so it’s natural for me to trail off and start thinking about other random stuff. What I don’t find natural, however, is how my brain always tends to focus on these kinds of embarrassing memories which I really wouldn’t have liked to revisit. Maybe it’s a sadistic way for our own brains to punish us. Probably not. Like you said, it’s probably something to do with the amygdala and neurology. I don’t know much about neurology, but I can definitely agree with you on one thing. This is a really embarrassing yet widespread phenomenon that we can see happening countless times in our life.

    -Ritwik

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